BEDTIME STORIES FOR ADULTS
Some guys are boobs men. Others are legs men. But in the bedroom, all are bum men.
I know plenty of women who have tried anal play, but I do not know a single one who initiated it.
Why do men fantasize obsessively about anal sex? Why do women engage in anal intercourse?
What is anal sex?
Sex at its rawest?
A forbidden fruit?
Pleasure or pressure?
Does it serve to increase the level of intimacy?
A way of birth control?
A broken taboo?
A way to show affection?
Hide-and-seek?
Hope?
Fear?
Penis enlargement?
A man’s inability to create responsive desire in a woman?
A type of gift from the woman or a woman’s trick?
Why the back door?
#6 I just gave it a try. He was curious and we did it.
#5 I engaged in anal intercourse in order to avoid vaginal sex when I was on my period.
#4 Every time I have had anal sex it was because I was either extremely drunk or loaded.
#3 I suffered from depression. It was not something I decided to do in any conscious way. He started doing it to me and I allowed him to do it. Actually, he took advantage of me. And I did not feel I had the right to say no.
#2 It was done to express my love for him. I did the best I could.
#1 It probably goes without saying, I needed two things: someone to love, and something to hope for. Anal sex was relationship hope. Hope that I had the skills to make the relationship last, even if I was experiencing demanding challenges.
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